How to start a good conversation?
A good beginning wins you half the battle.
A good beginning to a conversation sets the stage for a comfortable and meaningful exchange of information that both people will find enjoyable and valuable. But the beginning is always the hardest. In this article, I will show you a few tips that can be easily applied, whether you’re talking to a stranger in-person or online (Zoom Zoom!)
Think about the beginning of a conversation as the appetizer. The goal is not to get full by eating the appetizer, but simply to lead into the main course. At the end of the meal, we usually remember the main course, not so much the appetizer, so definitely don’t stress over the opening of a conversation.
A Warm Start
I recommend that you start with the following formula that always works:
[observation] + [compliment]
Starting with an observation about the other person is a good way to break the ice less awkwardly. Closely follow with a compliment to show your friendliness and make the other person feel good.
For example, you can open with something like the following:
- I’m impressed by how eloquent you are…
